There are traits that all solitary twins have in common. We express these individually through our personalities. Dividing traits into strengths and weaknesses is common, but that is much too narrow a view. To use a simple image: being sure of the next three steps is fatal if we are standing at the edge of a cliff. In this case, doubt would be a saving virtue. Traits only prove to be strengths or weaknesses in a context. Every weakness is a strength, every strength a weakness. It is the context that is decisive, not the trait. If we are aware of our traits and the context, we can use our traits as strengths.
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Being self-confident means knowing yourself
Knowing our characteristics and thus knowing ourselves is key here. However, a long undiscovered twin story shows that we have not known a large part of ourselves. A comprehensible rule says that the earlier the event, the deeper and more comprehensive the effect. So the twin story is more deeply rooted than even our breath. And with that, the traits that this event has shaped are also deeply rooted. Significant parts of our being are based on it. Because these traits lie very deep, they are difficult to grasp and bring to mind.
I see the following three core traits as fundamentally important. For solitary twins, it is essential to deal with them consciously. Until we discover our twin story, we will keep stumbling over these traits. Yet it is precisely in these traits that our unsuspected strengths lie. They are our central means of arriving and remaining in the midst of life.
Doubt and openness
We are talking here about fundamental doubts that can question everything, but above all ourselves. If we use our doubts helpfully in a context-sensitive way, it can clarify a lot. Our doubt, placed in the right place, helps us to pay attention and learn. One strength of doubt is openness to other paths. What if all you see is not all there is? To doubt and pay attention means openness to what is missing and invisibly present. It takes courage and need, with doubt providing the fuel. Doubts are not just paralyzing, they also make us seek and open us to other and broader views. We may look back on our lives and realize that doubt has kept us alert and on the move. All the way to discovering our twin story. This means that we not only open another chapter in dealing with doubt, but another book. You can find a detailed insight into the doubt of solitary twins here.
Energetical sensitivity
Inexplicable mood swings, highly sensitive or simply moody? It’s worth taking a closer look. Due to their start in life, solitary twins have a highly sensitive antenna for energy. In the vast majority of cases, the perceived energy is not grasped directly, but realized through feelings. If we do not learn to distinguish between energy and our feelings, we will stumble on a grand scale. That is a weakness. But if we understand how this energy antenna works, we have the chance to no longer be controlled involuntarily. If we do not consciously deal with the energy antenna, it deals with us. There is no big choice, either weakness or strength. If we deal with it consciously, it is an extremely enriching strength in life. It makes life clearer. Clarity is an excellent prerequisite for shaping our lives well. Dealing actively and consciously with our energetic sensitivity is the basis for this. Further insights on this topic can be found here.
Connected with greater reality
A trait that defies words and descriptions. But including it is vital. The greater reality is where we came from together with our twin. Our twin went back to or stayed there, depending on the point of view. The connection with our twin and this greater reality plays an important role in our lives. If we do not perceive it, we step on our own foot and make ourselves stumble. Then we are probably confusing the greater reality and the mundane reality. This is a weakness that may have led us to discover our twin. The same connection holds creative strengths beyond our imagination. Whatever words or images we use for this greater reality and our connection to it, both want to be seen and experienced by us. More words and images here.
Empathy and other qualities
are largely based on the three core qualities mentioned above. For example: How can you not be empathetic when you perceive the energy of the other person, you know that you are connected in a greater reality and your doubts open you to more than just your own? Other qualities such as sensitive, versatile, creative, permeable, curious and inquisitive are also based on these core qualities. And there are many more such qualities!
Guide to helpful offers for solitary twins
These core traits are connected to a central part of us that is closer to us than our breath. Until we discovered our twin story, we were unaware of this part. How can we recognize and integrate such a deep part of ourselves? That is the central question to take away. Structures, methods and content of offers are helpful if they include these core qualities.
Reading suggestions from here:
Want to ..
- test? See Twin test : Are you a solitary twin?
- check twin facts? See Twin matters!
- wake up? See Wake up from the dream of the womb!
- start healing? See Trust in time
- grip your doubts? See Harness your doubt!
- get clear? See Seize your energetical sensitivity!
- get a view beyond? See Plunge into timelessness
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